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Intimate Spaces: Beyond The Blog

Intimate Spaces: Beyond The Blog

By Malesha Griffin

If you’ve read Intimate Spaces the blog, join a sexpert and her best friend for weekly, intimate discussion. Welcome to the space where you’re not too Black, too ghetto, too sexual, or too much. This podcast welcomes all to come (see what we did there?) and be free to be intimate, laugh, cry, and to fuck. Whatever (and whoever) you’re doing, we’re here to talk nasty and freely about sex.
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The State of Sexuality

Intimate Spaces: Beyond The BlogMar 27, 2023

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The State of Sexuality

The State of Sexuality

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the various ways that state politicians are looking to decrease access and support for LGBT communities.
Mar 27, 202325:49
The Science of Romance

The Science of Romance

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss National Creative Romance month, the science behind falling in love, and their own thoughts and feelings on romance in relationships.
Feb 27, 202334:30
Jeffrey Dahmer & Black Bodies

Jeffrey Dahmer & Black Bodies

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the new docuseries on Jeffrey Dahmer, race, privilege, and the literal and metaphorical consumption of Black bodies in society.
Oct 31, 202237:56
What is Sex Tech?

What is Sex Tech?

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts define sex tech and give a brief overview of the industry.
Sep 26, 202232:16
Derby Traffic(k)

Derby Traffic(k)

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts talk about the Kentucky Derby season, human trafficking, and ways to remain safe and have fun during a summer of fun yet crowded events.
May 02, 202240:28
Too Independent, Black Women?

Too Independent, Black Women?

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts sit with other Black women entrepreneurs and intellectuals to discuss the impact success has had on their ability to create meaningful and long-lasting romantic and intimate relationships.

Apr 25, 202201:17:48
The Potential Breakup Episode

The Potential Breakup Episode

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the co-hosts discuss the truth about breakups, share tips, and talk about the inevitable consequence of a breakup - the rebound! Grab your favorite ice cream and come hang out! 

Apr 11, 202223:49
A Package Deal

A Package Deal

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts meet with single parents to discuss the do's and don'ts of dating and being parents.

Apr 04, 202241:46
What is Intimacy?

What is Intimacy?

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the difference between intimacy and sex, the varying types of intimacy, and ways to be more intimate in our relationships.

Mar 28, 202230:53
The Female Body

The Female Body

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts talk about the misconceptions and misunderstandings of the female body, female sex drive, and overall sexuality.

Mar 23, 202232:39
Fatal Attraction

Fatal Attraction

****Trigger Warning: violence, assault, domestic violence, rape


In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts take the interest of true crime and talk about crimes of passion, their relevance, and their difference between them and other forms of gender-based violence, like domestic violence.

Mar 14, 202226:20
The Importance of Aftercare

The Importance of Aftercare

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss what aftercare is and why it should be an important step in your sexual experience.

Mar 07, 202224:35
The History of Valentine's Day

The History of Valentine's Day

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the various backlash the month of February receives, how Valentine's Day is celebrated today, and some potential historical references.

Feb 24, 202219:35
Pleasure Politics

Pleasure Politics

Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss American politics and economics, our country’s history of oppression, and its impact on sex and sexuality.

Jan 31, 202222:21
Wet & Wild

Wet & Wild

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts and friends discuss the science behind bodily fluids, various messy turn-ons, and kinks involving the various waterworks of our body.

Jan 24, 202242:24
Leather Lifestyle

Leather Lifestyle

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts interview Kentucky Pride Leatherboy 2020/2022, Derek, or Boy Mayura ONYX, about the leather community, his accomplishment and experience, and advice for those interested.

Jan 17, 202237:53
Naughty New Year's Resolutions

Naughty New Year's Resolutions

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts bring in 2022 with their friend James to discuss their New Year's resolutions related to love, intimacy, sex, relationships, and more! Want to share yours? Go to Intimate Spaces Instagram page (https://www.instagram.com/intimatespaces_/) on New Year's Eve to participate!

Dec 29, 202101:11:33
Fat Fetishism & Feederism

Fat Fetishism & Feederism

In this episode the hosts talk about fat fethism and if it is a harmful kink.

Dec 15, 202147:18
What is Your Love Language?

What is Your Love Language?

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts and Jyrone discuss the famous five love languages and how they relate to the holiday season.

Nov 29, 202141:09
Poly Playground

Poly Playground

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts dive into the various forms of poly relationships, their origins, benefits, and give tips for people interested in opening their relationship.

Nov 24, 202145:18
What Men Want
Nov 16, 202152:13
The New Roe v. Wade?

The New Roe v. Wade?

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the major changes in abortion law in the state of Texas, the history of abortion and contraception in the United States, and ways to protect yourself and your partner from unwanted pregnancy.

Nov 01, 202140:41
NERD SEX!

NERD SEX!

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss role-playing, cosplay, and how people use these to spice things up in the bedroom. Please note: we love nerds here at Intimate Spaces. No nerds were harmed making this episode.

Oct 25, 202113:20
The Crossover

The Crossover

For this week's episode, Intimates Spaces: Beyond the Blog is joined by This Black Girl (Devyn’s podcast) to discuss stereotypes of Black women and how these stereotypes help and hinder our ability to ask for our wants and needs. We're also joined by a few other guests to really dive into this discussion. Join us this week as we dig into all of the things!


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Follow This Black Girl on IG @thisblackgirlpod and on Facebook @intimatespaces_

Oct 18, 202101:08:43
It’s Cuffing Season!

It’s Cuffing Season!

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts talk about cuffing season, where the idea came from, and tips to make it through this season.
Oct 11, 202126:05
An Interview with Tantric Touch

An Interview with Tantric Touch

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts talk about the history of tantra, BDSM, and speak with a couple who have put both together in their business endeavors.
Sep 20, 202144:32
Let’s Talk About Race(Play)

Let’s Talk About Race(Play)

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts dive into a deep discussion about race play: what it is, why it’s so controversial, and modern conversations around its practice.

Sep 13, 202142:12
Getting Down and Dirty!

Getting Down and Dirty!

In this episode, co-hosts of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, review topics from season one and get listeners prepared for the upcoming things to come!
Sep 06, 202125:05
Hot Girl Summer

Hot Girl Summer

In the season one finale of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss dating and sex in the summertime! What does it mean to have a hot girl summer and are you wiling to travel to find a bae? What do you need for the perfect baecation or couples' trip? Hosts also discuss what can be expected from Intimate Spaces as they prepare for Season 2, coming Fall 2021!

Jun 28, 202138:28
You’re Your Daddy’s Son

You’re Your Daddy’s Son

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts talk about all the various aspects of fatherhood with the various men in their life.
Jun 21, 202101:30:05
Pride & Pleasure

Pride & Pleasure

On this week's episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts are excited because it's Pride Month! They get into sex positivity, negativity, sex activism and what allies of the LGBTQ+ community can do to be TRUE allies (hint: avoid pinkwashing).

Don't forget what you need to do if you want a button and follow us on Facebook and Instagram! 

Jun 14, 202135:07
It's Playtime!

It's Playtime!

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss various types of sex toys, their purposes, tips and tricks for using them, and Black-owned sex toy stores.

May 31, 202138:04
Sex Work

Sex Work

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss sex work, the sex industry, and interview someone who identifies as a sex worker.

IG: @princess.robia

May 25, 202120:59
Girl Talk: The Perfect Date

Girl Talk: The Perfect Date

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts sit with their friend Amber to discuss dating apps, ideal dates, dates gone wrong, and the power of romance for National Date Your Mate month.

May 17, 202147:59
A Mother's Love

A Mother's Love

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts are joined by a group of mothers who discuss motherhood, pregnancy, childbirth, and so much more in celebration of Mother's Day.

May 11, 202158:52
Sexercise
May 03, 202147:03
Sexual Assault & Violence

Sexual Assault & Violence

*TRIGGER WARNING* Sexual Assault

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog the hosts discuss sexual assault, rape culture and various ways to combat these issues such as #MeToo and changing legislation.

Apr 26, 202122:12
What's Your Fetish?

What's Your Fetish?

This week on Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts discuss fetishism, the types, and what happens when fetishes go wrong. 

Apr 19, 202123:25
STI MythBusters

STI MythBusters

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss sexually transmitted infections and assist in debunking myths around contraction and infection.

Apr 12, 202126:29
Lie, Steal and Cheat

Lie, Steal and Cheat

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, co-hosts discuss the Derrick Jaxn scandal, define cheating, its reasons, and ways couples can overcome infidelity in their relationships.

Apr 06, 202125:10
Would You Walk 1000 Miles?

Would You Walk 1000 Miles?

In the episode the hosts of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog discuss the pros and cons of long distance relationships and ways to make a distance love work.

Mar 29, 202128:19
There's Some Hoes in This House

There's Some Hoes in This House

On this week's episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts talk hip hop and black female sexuality. If you haven't watched the Grammys, watch Cardi and Megan's performance and jump into this episode!

Mar 22, 202129:50
Masturbation Station

Masturbation Station

In this week's episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, the hosts discuss masturbation by its definition, its benefits and how you can use sex toys for the ultimate self-care! 

Mar 15, 202118:07
Our Bodies' Beautiful

Our Bodies' Beautiful

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss racism and its impact on beauty standards, dating, relationships, and of course, sex.

Mar 08, 202147:11
Welcome to the Dungeon: BDSM & Kink

Welcome to the Dungeon: BDSM & Kink

On this week's episode, the hosts discuss BDSM and kink! 

Follow us everywhere! 

Mar 01, 202126:10
Let's Get Erotica

Let's Get Erotica

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss erotica, urban erotica literature, its benefits, and suggestions for good erotic reads.

Feb 15, 202139:06
Turn Out the Lights

Turn Out the Lights

In this episode of Intimate Spaces, hosts speak with local rapper IVRY about setting the mood, the power of music, and engaging in foreplay.

Feb 08, 202139:50
Sex v. Gender
Feb 01, 202137:51
Girl Talk: Heaux Tales

Girl Talk: Heaux Tales

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts reminisce with friends about their own version of "heaux tales" based on Jazmine Sullivan's newly released EP.

Jan 25, 202144:07
My Love Life Is In a Pandemic

My Love Life Is In a Pandemic

In this episode of Intimate Spaces: Beyond the Blog, hosts discuss the changes COVID-19 has had on dating, sex, and relationships, and potential tips and tricks to overcome the pandemic in your love life.

Jan 18, 202129:36