This is not that Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama

There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media:

-Wealth

-Health

-Intelligence

-Being Fine or Hot

-Being Funny

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Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block.

Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024.

Welcome back! Its your audio besties here. We are talking about red flags to lookout for in romantic relationships and should not ignore.

• How to spot the difference between red flags and drawing boundaries?
• How to deal with a guy who keeps asking you for your car?
• What nationalities to be on the lookout for

Your audio besties are back and we got so much questions about modern women being labeled alpha women. What is a Black woman's place? DO WOMEN SUBMIT TO MEN ANYMORE ?

On this episode we talk about:

• Modern women and submission
• What does submission look like in reality?
• Reasons Black women struggle with submission

Your audio besties are back and we’re digging into the history of butt play and reading out your dirty little secrets to Shirley. 

This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. 

In this episode we discuss:

• How did butt play come to life 

• Read your dirty little secrets

• What are signs of cheating other than penetrative and emotional intimacy. 

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We have two new segments you will love, but first, a bunch of conspiracies' we need to debunk with ConspiracyGate. Hace you ever thought of people you would expeditiously send to jail for heinous crimes? Let's talk about our Citizens Arrests.

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On this episode we talk about:

• Trolls who talk behind private accounts
• JP Morgan Chase and Cocaine Ship
• Terrance J and the McLaren 
• Scissors with packaging, what's that about?

Your audio besties are back and with a new segment, Anime Banter. Listen to us nerd out about our favorite Anime movies and shows and fully dissect what may or may not be your favorite Anime.

This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. In this episode we discuss:

• The difference between being a Blerd, Dweeb, and Geek
• One Piece is not the superior anime
• Get to know us, Anime edition.

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Wonder what it’s like for someone to not be into you.? Yeah? We got you covered. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama share the true signs that she’s just not that into you. 

This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts. 

In this episode we discuss:

• Signs that a woman simply isn't into you
• The red flag date of Shirley getting flewed out by escape room guy
• The story of Cirocobama date that's favorite wings is Wing Stop

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Welcome back! We missed you a lot and we are so excited to be back. We decided this season return would be best to address some ignant sh*t we found around the interest. Shirley Dor and Cirocobama talk new segments and more. 

In this episode, Cirocobama and Shirley Dor crush the misconceptions on This Is Not That Podcast. They delve into a wide range of topics and challenge conventional thinking showcasing how the entertainers explore alternative perspectives, questioning assumptions, and embracing open-mindedness. Being Caribbean Heritage Month, we discuss:

HIV/AIDS in the Caribbean Community

Caribbean American HIV/AIDS Awareness Day

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By embracing sexual well-being you are nurturing wholeness in your life // Lè w anbrase byennèt seksyèl w ap pran swen sante w nan lavi w.

Join hosts Shirley Dor and CirocObama on an engaging episode of This is Not That Podcast, as they delve into the multifaceted world of sexuality in the Haitian community. Together with special guests, they navigate attitudes, beliefs, and societal factors that shape discussions about sex.

With a focus on fostering understanding and promoting comprehensive sexual health education, this episode sheds light on important topics including education, awareness, cultural norms, gender roles, parenting strategies, and challenging taboos and stigmas. By addressing these areas, we aim to improve sexual well-being among the Haitian diaspora and natives.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation that celebrates diverse perspectives while advocating for a healthier and more informed approach to sexuality in the Haitian community. Let's foster positive change together!

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As Shirley Dor and Cirocobama close out this season of This is Not That Podcast, we reflect on previous season while doing a mukbang. Topics we explored:

Relationships dynamics

Dating partnered men

Interests in finding a romantic partner

Dating blue collar men

Dating as an entrepreneur

What makes a woman masculine

Prioritizing mental wellness and preventing burnout, we will see you next season in the thick of summer.

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Shirley Dor goes viral on Twitter and people were not happy about it. It is unfortunately all too common for men to feel entitled to a woman's time and attention simply because they have financial stability. The idea that a woman's decision not to date someone who is financially unstable is not a reflection of their character or worth as a person is explored. Shirley Dor and CirocObama dives into why it's important for men to understand this and not lash out at women who don't want to date them. If you're a woman who has experienced this kind of behavior, or a man who wants to understand why it's important to respect a woman's choices, this discussion on dating and entitlement is for you. "If he's broke, I ain't fixin' him." So sit back, grab your favorite snack, and listen on in,

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Entrepreneurship often requires a constant hustle that can easily lead to neglecting one's own well-being and suffering from burnout and stress. We decided to practice what we preach and get facials at Talia V Skincare. In this episode, we share our personal experiences and discuss tips for taking care of yourself and being mindful of your busy schedule. We had the pleasure of interviewing Talia, a esthetician based in Orlando who makes your skin her expertise. We talk about our entrepreneurial struggles and how we make self care a priority in their lives. Tune in to gain inspiration and insight on how you can prioritize self care and improve your overall well-being

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Research states that there are 11 reasons why Black women are single and we do not believe none of it. Let's talk about the challenges and pleasure of being a single Black woman and debunk those myths.

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Afraid of turning 30? Not sure you're becoming the best version of yourself by 30? This week on this is NOT that podcast, Shirley and Ciroc talk share advice they would give there 20 year old self in their last year of being in their 20's. They talk to special guest MunchydaPlug about advice on love, dating, careers, family, health, and relationships in your 30's.

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It’s relationship wellness and Black History month! Shirley Dor and Ciroc explore the importance of taking sexual responsibility when dating. We talk HIV awareness, National Black HIV/AIDS awareness day, and at home testing options to continue enjoying sex.

Every Tuesday, let’s have soul-provoking conversations with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama.

Shirley, a sex educator and therapist merges her expertise and raunchy personal stories in open conversations with Ciroc, a raw conversationalist. They’ll provide a safe space to explore love, dating, all kinds of relationships, and pleasure.

This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.

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Let's settle this now, RIP C/O Uncut.  Shirley and Ciroc addresses the elephant in to room and why we're started podding again but a brand new face.

Every Tuesday, let’s have soul-provoking conversations with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama.

Shirley, a sex educator and therapist merges her expertise and raunchy personal stories in open conversations with Ciroc, a raw conversationalist. They’ll provide a safe space to explore love, dating, all kinds of relationships, and pleasure.

This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.

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