Bossy Bruja Podcast
By Bossy Bruja Podcast
Bossy Bruja PodcastFeb 16, 2024
EP 59: read atomic habits with me
i just started reading ATOMIC HABITS by james clear and i am so happy i did. it reminded me that when i change how i see myself, i can easily change my habits and achieve my goals. the audiobook is available on spotify. xo
EP 58: may i suggest being single...
AFTER TWO YEARS OF BEING SINGLE, i want to go another 2 years. i've loved my time alone. the peace is remarkable; the money saved is staggering; the freedom is soul-refreshing; the deep state of rest and wellness - outstanding. my confidence and self-trust has been restored. i feel like myself.
i've quit smoking. i've grown my teaching platform. i've read dozens of books. i've been writing again. i feel better.
it took some time to get to a place replete with such PEACE, but it happened and i think it can happen for you too. i do not want you sitting around miserable because someone is mistreating you, especially if there is even the slightest possibility they are harboring the worst of thoughts toward you.
i share my thoughts in this podcast, but only because i've been subjected to so many conversations regarding people's relationships lately. here is my advice.
ep 57: Happy Birthday Honey
June 3, 2023 at 11:58 PM CT was my last conversation with Honey of the Honey Jar - this is our unedited conversation.
xoxo
Happy birthday Honey xoxo
ep 56: manufacture better beliefs to live your best life babygirl
book recommendation WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU TALK TO YOURSELF by DR. SHAM HELMSTETTER
EP 55: high achievers and y'all's damn imposter syndrome! 🤷🏿
I took the time to research the definition of imposter syndrome (which I'd never done before) and I realized why I often have a hard time understanding why such brilliant people suffer with this common inner conflict. (Hint: it's because on the outside you're most likely doing much better than you feel or think you are!)
I break it down with the help of nifty pop psychology websites and writers. Let's discuss.
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xoxo - thanks for listening!!
EP 54: a shared vision + a weird dream i had
hello friends,
so i recorded this podcast episode days ago and then i just sat with it. it feels a little more intimate and vulnerable than i like to share this dream, but in my app BRUJAS - my students and i are all studying dreams and sharing this dream offers a pretty cool opportunity for me to explain how the subconscious mind may be bringing things we've noticed in waking hours back up to us during sleep and dreams. also gives a little bit of insight into how i personally interpret my dreams. hint: first i write them down.
thanks for listening - find me on instagram.com/bossybruja
also download and subscribe to my teaching platform - BRUJAS app in the Google Play Store and App Store.
xoxo
EP 53: being gentle with yourself + choosing beliefs that feel good
In this episode, I begin by sharing a vision with you and then I share with you some of the protocols I've been doing lately to help myself through a time of grief. I end the episode by sharing with you some of the beliefs I have chosen which help me feel better overall. The big message I desire to share here is that regardless of what's happening currently, we retain our freedom and choices to focus on the positive things we are allowing into our lives now. Much love to you.
Add me on Instagram and check out Adam Cox's podcast THE HYPNOTIST when you get the chance.
EP 52: THE BOY IS YOURS
TRIGGER WARNINGS: In this episode, I mention a couple crimes I heard on true crime podcasts and one news story out of Miami. I mentioned domestic violence and abuse as well as murders without going too deeply into details.
This podcast episode is about loving ourselves enough to leave relationships where we don't feel loved by our "partners." Or at the very least choosing peace before we find ourselves 60 YEARS OLD calling the phone of someone who isn't even interested in the man who is stringing us along.
Have fun xoxo
EP 51: are you struggling to remain consistent in your spiritual practice?
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for clarity, here are my suggestions in no specific order:
1. ask yourself powerful questions rather than simply stating your struggles; for example, you might ask yourself, "when am i most consistent and motivated in my spiritual practice?" from there you can find ways to recreate some of those internal and external environmental factors that support your consistency.
2. is it possible that you don't have time for your practices because you're giving too much time and attention to things that do not require your direct involvement? are there ways that you can couple spiritual practices with things you're already doing?
3. your spiritual practice does not need to look the same as it has in the past. it also does not need to look like anybody else's practice.
4. you don't actually need to be constantly casting spells; some of the people you see online casting a lot of spells are casting spells for other people (because it's their job); they likely are not casting so many spells for themselves (this does not include maintenance work like spiritual baths and weekly prosperity burns).
5. ask yourself what your spiritual and majikal practice entails. it is more than casting spells. what are some other ways you practice tapping into spiritual wisdom and energy?
6. do not judge yourself, chances are you're doing better than you think.
7. figure out why you're practicing in the first place. when you start to recognize the benefits of a having a spiritual practice, chances are you will find it easier to lean into your practice. in other words, get clear within yourself about the spiritual benefits of your practice.
EP 50: supporting yourself when others can't or won't ☺️
I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope that my suggestions and thoughts on supporting yourself are clear. I had some experiences with close relatives recently that, while they didn't come from a mean-spirited way, still let me reeling emotionally. It can be overwhelming and even seem impossible to be everything to everybody and I really feel that we should give up even trying. Instead, I think becoming masterful at taking excellent care of ourselves and choosing what is best for ourselves even if and when others cannot support or agree is best in the long run for our own health and the health of our relationships.
Lovingly,
bossy
EP 49: Miscommunication drives conflict
I feel confident that one of the best things we can do in relationships we desire to maintain (with people we love) is to either invite in an objective third-party we can both trust and respect, or to soften and be the first to listen to understand. My hope and prayer for us all is that we experience love that is safe, gentle, kind, and patient. And that we give this love to ourselves always.
Peace and blessings and good luck!
God bless.
-Bossy
EP 48: Here's how I heal my relationship with money + honor my inner child
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Thanks for taking the time to listen and share.
Peace and blessings.
Talk soon.
EP 47: good grief
life is definitely teaching right now and i am paying attention even though it hurts sometimes. i hope that if any of your out there are experiencing grief, pain, or loss - you don't feel alone. i hope that you have people around you who see you, hear you, understand you, love you, keep you lifted in prayer, and pour into you. and i hope that you take excellent care of you.
xoxo
bossy
EP 46: stop letting these bitches hurt you ☺️
HERE IS THE LINK TO THE TRANSCRIPT FOR THIS EPISODE: TRANSCRIPT
STOP LETTING THESE BITCHES HURT YOU.
- I got tired of feeling hurt by people, so I stopped making their choices my problem.
- I started seeing rejection, separation, redirection, space, and delays as part of my Spirit Team’s work to guide me toward what is aligned and away from what is not.
- I stopped letting people’s opinions be so damn important to me. Now, I don’t care who you are - I pick and choose which opinions matter.
- I piped down with all the expectations. I have high standards for me, not for y’all.
- I stopped telling people how to treat me and simply watched instead. Your choices will tell me everything I need to know. How a person moves naturally tells you a lot.
- I started to understand that instead of using my time to win people over, I could simply use that same time and energy to connect with people who are already on the same type of time I’m on, period.
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EP 45: you may not like me after this one | @bossybruja
EP 44: savages, slaves, + modern man | @bossybruja
This whole episode is basically about how we should respect the Ancients + their indelible connection to Nature which we sorely need to reclaim and find again for ourselves.
With love,
Bossy
EP 43: LISTEN TO THIS WHEN YOU'RE ALONE | @bossybruja
This episode of the podcast draws on an article from WOMEN AGAINST ABUSE. I wanted to share this episode of the podcast while we are still in Human Trafficking Awareness Month. I wanted to specifically draw attention to different forms of abuse that may be occurring in personal/intimate relationships. If you're experiencing any of these, hopefully this podcast is enough to help you take stock of the experience with a sober mind and take safe appropriate action, or help someone in your community who may need support. I wish you well.
Here are some resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline. Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service 800-799-7233
EP 42: how to be happy | @bossybruja
EP 41: what to believe | @bossybruja
Blessings,
Welcome back to the bossy bruja podcast. I am grateful you are here. I just wanted to come share some reminders that you're FREE to choose thoughts that are pleasing, empowering, and useful to you! Enjoy. Join me on instagram @bossybruja
EP 40: Capricorn Full Moon Messages + Oath of Manifestation Prayer
Here are the messages I share in this episode:
- Be careful who you are devoted to, you're too precious
- Be careful who you commit yourself to, especially when the commitment will be permanent
- Let people have their lessons; sometimes you have to leave people where they are + progress without certain people
- Only pour from a full + overflowing cup
- Just because you have it to give, doesn't mean you always should
- Loving Black men is not martyrdom
- Surgically remove the limitations you have in your mind around love + other manifestations
- Once lines get crossed + someone demonstrates they're unwilling or unable to love you, it's time to reassess what you're pouring into that relationship
- Don't allow people to make their emergencies your problem; the only things that are urgent are the goals you've set for yourself
- Take your sweet time; take time to think about investments; don't act rashly or too quickly
- You have time!
- Intentionally slow down with people who are trying to pressure you into any decision, especially where investments of time, resources or money are concerned
- Whatever you want to do, do it now -- there are only so many tomorrows. -Michael Landon (Take action, my love!!)
- Don't commit yourself out of a pressure that someone else is applying to you
- God will restore the years the locusts have eaten -Joel 2:25
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Peace + Blessings
Bossy
EP 39: HOW TO LIVE WELL WITH MINIMAL RESOURCES
This is a requested episode. I hope you all enjoy listening to it as much as I enjoyed recording it. And I hope you feel a sense of renewed inspiration if you're going through an ebb season in your life during this time. There are many benefits to tap into during these phases and I hope to direct your thinking to those with this episode.
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There is no shame in seasons of ebb. They are a literal part of Nature and Life. Learning to manage yourself and your resources during these seasons will ensure you remain emotionally lifted and satisfied even when the resources and opportunities are waning and ebbing.
EP 38: Alignment + Attraction: An exploration of practice, vibration, alignment and frequency.
In this episode, I took a look at some words we hear often in the spiritual community. My objective was to determine what these things mean in real life and how they are workable toward achieving our goals and experiencing more of our desires. I hope you enjoy.
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Thank you for listening.
EP 37: HAPPY SAGITTARIUS TOTAL LUNAR ECLIPSE
Just a few words for those of you joining me in 3 months of honoring our bodies.
EP 36: Degraded Spirituality
I hope this is well-received, because I meant every word and I think it is highly useful to us. A degraded approach to magick, spirituality, and religion will not yield high results. I believe when Jesus taught: "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all these things will be added unto you," this was a tip to humanity to keep first things first. Our approach to magick, spirituality, and religion can be with high aims and clear priorities. I think it is a mistake to make other people the priority of our magick, religion, and spirituality. What if instead we made our connection to God, deepening our understanding of life, the universe, universal laws, our own inner peace, knowledge of self, heightening our consciousness and supporting our healing and faith our focus? How might our lives be transformed for the better, from the inside out?
Something to think about...
EP 35: Hypnotize: a short, instructive story
Have you wondered about ways to use my Hypnotism oil? I've got you covered. Enjoy the story and listen for the instructions on how to use it.
EP 34: Story Time: My Shitshow Relocation + How I'm Bouncing Back
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EP 33: Awaken the B*tch Within
Welcome back to the podcast, dear. I am so happy and relieved to be back.
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EP 32: Your Friends, Yourself
In this episode, I touch on generational curses and how our closest relationships affect us. This topic feels very personal to me, and I've been considering it for weeks. I consider this topic to be extremely important and I urge my listeners to consider it seriously for themselves. I hope you find value in this recording. Thank you, always, for listening. If you're interested in joining my online training portal, you are welcome to join by going to this here.
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EP 31: How to opt out of shame
Shame is a largely useless and damaging emotion to choose for oneself. In this quick podcast I'll share some ideas that will hopefully clarify its uselessness and help you opt out and transcend. For more spiritual guidance and teachings, please join our online teaching portal here.
EP 30: How to Reset After A Transition
Here's the link to the BOSSY RESET: tips and suggestions BLOG on my website: https://bossybruja.com/bossygrimoire/2021/5/27/bossy-reset-tips-and-suggestions
EP 29: Three things to do when you feel lonely...
In this podcast, I am suggesting that during those times when you know it would benefit you to keep to yourself, you do just that. But if you start to feel the uncomfortable feelings of loneliness then here are three things I recommend (and practice myself).
They all fall under the umbrella of what I call "Entering the Creative Process."
There are three things you are can (and you can do one of them or all of them, whatever you choose). Those three things are: Make art; Make your environment(s) more beautiful; and/or Create the next chapter of your life.
In this podcast, I will explain the four step process you can use to change your consciousness and thus automatically change your life.
If you enjoy this podcast, give us a great review, subscribe, share it with a friend and then join us over on Instagram for more discussions like this one. You can find us here.
EP 28: Love & Consciousness
EP 27: FEAR, COURAGE + FAILURE = BIG FUN
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EP 26: OATH OF MANIFESTATION + INCREASING YOUR POWER FOR MORE EFFECTIVE SPELL WORK
To download the full 22 minutes and 11 second OATH OF MANIFESTATION recording, please click here.
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Talk soon!
EP 25: 10 WAYS WITCHES HEX THEMSELVES
EP 24: 4 Reasons You Don't Need to Argue About Your Beliefs
EP 23: Making Life Majikal
EP 22: How not to be disappointed by other people.
EP 21: GHETTO ASS EARTH: would not recommend
Join Chyrsalis and I as we discuss our thoughts in light of recent events. It gets a little racy, but having this conversation was healing for me even though parts of it were very difficult. I believe witches and BLACK WITCHES, in particular, having more conversation like this will be extremely healing. Enjoy.
EP 20: Bruja Tea Party: How I Think About Prosperity + Wealth as a Black Witch and Why TLC is the Move
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Please also, check out Chrysalis Sun's episode on B The Vibe Radio in the "Unpopular Opinion" series titled "Being Spiritual Does Not Mean Being Broke." anchor.fm/bthevibe
EP 19: The Dominatrix Wears White: A conversation with Chrysalis Sun.
The Complete Guide To Crystal Medicine — B The Vibe
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EP 18: Overcoming Feelings of Insecurity (& Anxiety)
EP 17: Know Thy Astrology Know Thyself
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He's bringing brilliant simplicity to his interpretation of the stars!
He's dispensing endless wisdom and giving us Astrology as the original psychology realness!!
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Ep 16: Baseline Prayer (a service)
Loving you